The post in which a man revealed that his widowed friend found out that his children, left only in his care, are not actually his, has gone viral on Facebook.
The man found out the secret after 14 years photo source “Adevarul” Archive
The question, released to Internet users, was posted on the Romanians in Spain Facebook group.
“I'm asking on behalf of a friend. After his wife died a short time ago, he recently found out, following DNA tests, that the two children, aged 12 and 14, are not his. How can he handle the situation at this difficult time? What can he do now?”the man writes.
The one who made the situation public explained that the father did DNA tests for the two children left orphaned by their mother, after he discovered that they had genetic conditions, which are not found in anyone in his family or in his late wife.
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The question sparked hundreds of comments on the Romanians in Spain page.
“Why did he take a DNA test? What was the reason? The father knew for sure since he did the DNA test. Fortune to be in the middle? “, writes a woman.
“The children have genetic diseases, which he or his ex-wife did not have, and a different behavior and temperament,” explains the person who made the post.
“And until he was 14, when he had his first child, didn't he know? Now when the wife died did the problem arise? The Lord, I understand, does not want children? Isn't it enough that they fucked their mother? He was to do a DNA test, but was he at the psychologist with the children? Do you know how much these angels suffer?”another woman writes indignantly, telling her friend that she should give him better advice: if she doesn't want him, it would be best to entrust her to her mother's family.
“Everything they achieved together, he and mother, the mother's part will be the children's”, warns the woman, who opines that, in fact, the father would seek to disinherit the two children, on the grounds that they are not his.
“By the time the wife died, didn't the children have genetic diseases and different behaviors? What genetic diseases? Do you know that genetics can skip generations? How, 14 years she played the fool and now she noticed that her children are sick? Clearly, the man does not want his children. It's shameful! I hope those kids don't want him either when they realize what kind of man they call
Most criticize the father's gesture of testing his children and now considering giving them up on the grounds that he is not their father.
“Poor woman, not even dead can rest. You give your opinion without knowing the woman. Just because a fake account posted
“Oh man, don't you think how bad you're doing the kids now, after all these years, to say they're not your kids, especially since it's both of them? I don't know what you did before your wife died, why now?” it's one man's opinion.
“Having two children with someone else is unimaginable, God forgive her! Raise the children like you raised them, man, the children have no fault. You, as a man, where have you been and how have you been with your wife? What exactly is difficult? Is the ego too big?”is another woman's reaction.
“The children are not to blame, and as you have been their father, up to this age, and bear your name, I may continue to do so. When they come of age, if they want, you can tell them the truth, although I think it would only transfer them suffering and insecurity, that is, they lose their mother at 12 and 14, and at 18 they find out that their father is not their father either?”the woman continued.
“Ultimately, a parent is the one who would give his life for the child, because he loves him and is by his side, in moments of joy or sadness, the one who helps him develop, supports him, guides him, pushes him from back if needed”a man explains.
“Be angry with the wife, not the children! Children are innocent! He slept until now if in 14 years he didn't realize they weren't his. That's it, he can't do anything, they're at his place in the garden, let him take care of them.” it's a woman's opinion.
“The children have no fault, let them continue to grow and love them and that's it, it's the only right option. Anyway, if he has raised them so far, he has them in his heart and soul, let him stay there in his heart and be happy, sometimes the truth is better to stay under the rug. You being an adult doesn't matter what you know, it matters what the children know… and the children know that you are their father!”says a man on the Romanians in Spain Facebook group.
