When looking for a suitable partner, it is important to keep in mind some essential behaviors that can help you attract quality men. And vice versa is valid.
Men are attracted to women with personality, authenticity and a sense of humor Photo Arhiva Adevărul
If you want to attract an outstanding partner, it is essential to set yourself high standards, be authentic and express your personality with confidence, notes Your Tango publication. This approach will not only repel the wrong people, but attract men who will truly appreciate your worth. In this article, we uncover, with the help of experts, six key behaviors that attract men like a magnet, guaranteeing that with the help of their advice, you will attract the attention of the right partner.
1. Men are attracted to women who have high standards
Maintain high standards for how you want to be treated and what you accept in a relationship. Be clear about what is acceptable and where you are willing to compromise in your pursuit of true love. Once you set these standards, stick to them strictly. If you start breaking them, the message is that you are tolerating unsatisfactory treatment, which will not attract quality men. At the first sign of disrespect from a man, express your displeasure. If the behavior is repeated, leave. By staying, you’re suggesting you accept being treated this way, warns relationship mentor Janet Ong Zimmerman.
2. Treat with respect and trust, if you want to be reciprocated in the same way
When you treat a man with respect and kindness, you give him the opportunity to show you if he really is a reliable partner. The respect and appreciation you show him makes him feel valued and encourages him to reciprocate. Thus, he will be more open to really know you, respect you and value you.
However, be careful how they treat others, not just you. At the beginning of a relationship, everyone tends to show their best side, so observe how they behave with those around them to better understand who they really are, points out Marilyn Sutherland, relationship coach.
3. Authenticity attracts like a magnet
To attract a long-term partner, authenticity is key. Don’t try to be someone you’re not just to impress – those who are looking for a false image are not the right partners for you. Be yourself, express yourself freely and you will discover how magnetic you can be. Research by Larry Michel, known as The Love Shepherd, shows that authenticity best attracts that person who will fall in love with your true essence.
4. Honest women who know what they want are more attractive
Many single people believe that frequenting popular and crowded places full of attractive people will increase their chances of finding their ideal partner, even if they don’t feel comfortable and don’t like the atmosphere. In reality, they would be surprised to discover how relaxing and enjoyable an environment that aligns with their real needs can be. Conforming to social “norms” can add a lot of stress and prevent you from finding a genuine connection.
Often, attending clubs or events, even when exhausted, is driven by the fear of missing out or the desire to meet someone. However, if these places do not bring satisfaction, they will not generate genuine and compatible encounters, experts warn.
That’s why it’s essential to listen to your instincts and choose activities that make you happy. Being willing to spend time alone, or give up certain events, can pave the way for more appropriate and authentic connections, points out Joanna Schroeder, author and media critic.
5. Personality matters more than looks
Romantic attraction isn’t just about physical features. Your personality plays a crucial role in how you are perceived and valued. How can you make someone fall in love with you? The answer is simple: be authentic and show who you really are!
A study by David M. Buss of the University of Texas found that beyond physical appearance, both men and women value intelligence and kindness in their long-term partners. Intelligence suggests problem-solving skills and the potential to be a successful parent, while kindness brings comfort and security to the relationship.
But that’s not all. In addition to kindness, a well-developed sense of humor can do wonders. Men are also attracted to extroverted women. A 2015 study found that extroversion is one of the most sought-after traits for a long-term relationship.
Confidence and positivity are extremely attractive. Don’t be afraid to express yourself freely in social situations and be honest. According to ratings on sincerity and attractiveness, this can be one of the most captivating traits you can have, says dating and relationship coach Christian Anderson.
6. The Power of Subtle Provocation: Don’t be afraid to be a little provocative
Being a little provocative can spark a lot of curiosity and interest from those around you. When you express your intelligence and sense of humor in a subtle and playful way, you attract attention in a very attractive way.
For example, if someone asks for your number too quickly, respond with a clever joke like “You would like to, wouldn’t you?” or “My number is highly sought after”, without giving it immediately. This not only adds a touch of mystery, but also paves the way for interesting and engaging conversations, says dating coach Ronnie Ann Ryan.
Be yourself and bring out the most beautiful aspects of your personality. Having fun, enjoying life, and refusing to settle for less than you deserve are key. If you don’t hide your true personality, you will definitely attract someone who appreciates who you really are. It’s not just about finding someone right, it’s about letting yourself be seen in all your authentic brilliance.
